Pamela K. Neville

NEVILLE, Pamela Kay (Fisher) of Amherst, New Hampshire - March 25th, 2026

Beloved wife of Allan (Al) Neville. Devoted mother to Michael S. DiPirro and his wife Christine (O’Brien) of Plaistow, NH, Matthew D. DiPirro and his wife Lindsay (Desilets) of Manchester, NH, and stepmother to Erin Neville of St. Petersburg, FL. and her partner Michael DiDio. Grandmother of Zoey Claire and Sasha Margaret DiPirro.

Pamela was born in Champaign, Illinois, to Margaret and William Fisher on March 7th, 1957. Pamela’s mission in life was to make the people around her smile. If you had a passion, she was your biggest cheerleader and she loved supporting you. Pam never met a stranger; you instantly became her friend, whether you were a server at her favorite restaurant or just in line with her at the supermarket. Her love and dedication to people around her had no limits.

Pam loved New England sports teams and bonded with her friends and family by spiritedly joining in on fantasy baseball and football leagues. She often chose her favorite Red Sox and Patriots players as early as possible. There was nothing that she loved more than hosting her kids and grandchildren at her home for some appetizers, a homemade meatloaf, and a Patriots game.

Pam cherished the time that her family spent together. She often would be so excited after a wonderful day that she would reach out to her sons when they got home to make the next set of plans, especially if it meant spending more time with her beloved granddaughters.

A beach lover, Pam enjoyed family vacations spent on Moody Beach in Maine, sister trips to Hampton Beach, and even had a destination wedding in the Bahamas to her beloved husband, Al. Joyous times of sun-filled days and karaoke nights will be remembered fondly.

She worked as a bookkeeper at IntegraTECH Distribution and had office administration positions at SpacePole and Hi-Tech Fabricators. She held just as much care for those she worked with as her closest friends outside of work. She was often described as a “second mom” or “mom of the office.”

Pam was loved in every corner of her life due to the overwhelming kindness, enthusiasm, and generosity that she showed to those around her. Her smile, her laugh with the little snort at the end, and the little happy dance that she would do will all be greatly missed, and will be forever with us in spirit.

We can honor her legacy by paying it forward and uplifting others, taking time to see the joy in each day, pausing to admire a sunset, and enjoying more moments with those we love and telling them we love them often. She walked through life with a warm smile and sought to see yours too.

She was predeceased by her parents William Fisher and Margaret Fisher along with her brothers Richard and Bill Fisher. She is survived by her children and grandchildren, her sister Bennetta (Fisher) McConnell and her husband Jon of Waverly, IL, and her nephew Nicholas Taylor and her former husband and father of her children, Steven DiPirro.

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What made Pam most happy was when she was surrounded by family and friends. In her memory, a celebration of life will be held on April 11th, 2026, from 1-3 p.m in the Smith & Heald Funeral Home, 63 Elm Street, Milford, NH.